Karen grew up in a family with a mother who was very aware of body image and wearing the latest fashions. In many ways, Karen never felt like she quite measured up to the expectations that her mother had for a daughter, from the fact that she felt like a total klutz all the time to never being able to ace academic tests in school.
When she was 16, Karen began to eat massive amounts of food any time she felt like a failure. If her mother criticized her clothes, she went hid in her bedroom and stuffed herself with her secret stash of cupcakes and her favorite candy bars. Then in the evening, she would do as many sit-ups as she could until she collapsed into bed and fell asleep.
When she went away to college, Karen’s feelings of inadequacy followed her and so did her binging and purging habit. If she did not get the grade she expected on an exam, she stopped at the store and bought a tub of her favorite ice cream and ate the entire thing in one sitting. She would then make herself vomit until she felt it was all out of her stomach. Just to make sure, she would take a few laxative pills to force her body to push everything out.
After college, Karen was in for a dental exam when her dentist frowned at her and asked if she had ever made herself vomit on a regular basis. When Karen admitted that she had and sometimes still did, the dentist recommended that she go to see a counsellor or psychologist because she could have an eating disorder that could result in serious health problems, including the possibility of death.
Scared and afraid, Karen called the number of the counsellor the dentist recommended and was surprised and relieved to find that the therapist was not only understanding, but also compassionate. Slowly she began to understand why she felt out of control of her eating habits and why she felt so guilty after and episode. (This article is electronically protected – Copyright © Associated Counsellors & Psychologists Sydney PTY LTD)